How to attract a soul mate

How to attract a soul mate: picture of a beautiful woman

People seem to be always on a long search (and sometimes challenging) for their soulmate. It is my belief that every person has not just one, but multiple potential soulmates awaiting them. 

Soulmates extend far beyond the boundaries of romantic relationships. They can also manifest as cherished friends—those individuals who truly see and accept you for who you are. These special connections go beyond romance and bring immense love, support, and understanding into your life.

Having a soulmate in your life is undeniably a blessing, so why does it sometimes feel so difficult to find someone who gets you and make you feel like home? In this article, I will offer clear and easy-to-follow instructions on how to attract a soul mate with joy and ease. After all, the process of manifestation should be an enjoyable and purposeful journey.

So, let’s get into it!

How to attract a soul mate: a vase carved the word" soulmate"

How to attract a soul mate

Identifying clearly what you want

The first and foremost crucial step in any manifestation process is to clearly know what you want. It’s not merely a generic statement like “I don’t want to be lonely” or “I want someone to love and support me.”

You need to be really clear about what you want, with all the details. The clearer and more specific you are in the beginning, the better your chances of making it happen.

There are two ways I find very effective in being clear with yourself about what you want in attracting a soulmate. These are creating a “Soul Mate Vision Board” and writing a letter to your future soulmate.

Create a “Soul Mate Vision Board”

A Soul Mate Vision Board is a visual representation of your desires and aspirations, created by using images, symbols, and affirmations that resonate with your idea of a perfect soulmate.

This is where your creativity gets to shine and it’s a very fun thing to do (yes, don’t approach it as a task!)

How to attract a soul mate: a vision board

Gather magazines, printed images, or search online for pictures that evoke the qualities and characteristics you seek in a partner. Look for images that reflect your desired emotional connection, shared interests, values, and even physical traits.

You can cut out these images or print them and arrange them on a poster board or a corkboard.

In addition to visuals, include affirmations or positive statements that affirm your belief in finding your soulmate. 

Write these affirmations on colorful cards or small pieces of paper and place them on your vision board.

This a a process that allows you to engage your imagination and tap into your subconscious mind. This is when you send out a clear message to the universe.

Where to place your vision board?

Definitely a place you can see it everyday.

You can place it in your bedroom to start and end your day with a clear focus, or hang it in your office or workspace for consistent reminders while you work.

Display it in your walk-in closet or dressing area to inspire positive energy as you get ready, or if you are into spirituality, incorporate it into your personal altar or sacred space to infuse intentions into your spiritual practices

How to attract a soul mate: vision boards hanging in bedroom

Write a letter to your future soul mate

I highly recommend writing a heartfelt letter to your future soul mate as a powerful method to express your desires and intentions for the relationship.

There is no fixed way to write your letter to your future soulmate; just let your emotions guide you. 

Pour out your feelings, hopes, and dreams onto the paper. I suggest expressing what you envision for the relationship, how you want to feel with your soulmate, and the qualities you seek in a partner. Be as specific as possible, describing the kind of love, support, and connection you desire.

How to attract a soul mate: a letter

Visualize your future soulmate while writing the letter, allowing your words to create a vivid image of the relationship you wish to manifest.

Imagine the shared experiences, adventures, and growth you will embark on together. Express gratitude for their presence in your life, even before they arrive.

After finishing the letter, you can read it aloud to yourself. Then, keep it somewhere safe such as a journal, a special box, or even under your pillow (yes, because it may seem kind of weird if someone finds it and reads what you wrote). The important thing is to feel the emotions and conviction behind your words.

How to attract a soul mate: a woman is reading letters

This is a very powerful exercise, as it clarifies your intentions and opens yourself up to receive love. It aligns your thoughts and emotions with the energy of attracting your ideal partner.

The whisper method

Now, we come into the main part of How to attract a soul mate. This time, I will introduce to you the whisper method – a particularly effective technique for manifesting a soulmate or even a specific person.

Step 1: Envision Your Soul Mate

Take a moment to envision your soul mate. Instead of focusing on their physical appearance, try to imagine their presence, energy, and the qualities you desire in a partner. Visualize their essence, their love, and the connection you will share. 

It’s not necessary to have a clear picture of their physical features; focus more on the emotions and connection you want to experience with them.

Step 2: Come close and whisper to them

Once you have a clear image in your mind, imagine yourself coming close to your soul mate. In your imagination, position yourself beside them or in front of them. Then, gently lean in and whisper into their ear, “Come to me” or use a similar phrase that resonates with you. 

How to attract a soul mate: a woman is whispering to a man's ear

Repeat this whisper three times, allowing the words to carry your intention into your soulmate. 

Feel the energy and conviction behind your words as you imagine your soul mate hearing your call.

Step 3: Kiss your soul mate on the forehead

 Complete the Whisper Method by planting a gentle kiss on your soul mate’s forehead. As you imagine this tender gesture, infuse it with genuine emotion and the belief that your soul mate is drawn to you and your love.

Then just simple walk away!

How to attract a soul mate: a man is kissing a woman on her forehead

Practicing self-love and self-acceptance

Practicing self-love and self-acceptance is a powerful means of aligning with a soul mate who will reciprocate that love and acceptance. When we truly embrace ourselves with compassion and kindness, we create a foundation of worthiness and attract partners who see and appreciate our true value.

Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a close friend

Prioritize Self-Care

Make self-care a priority by engaging in activities that promote your well-being. This can include activities like meditation, exercise, nurturing hobbies, spending time in nature, or simply taking moments for relaxation and rest.

How to attract a soul mate:a woman is enjoying her alone time

Set Boundaries

Learn to set healthy boundaries to protect your emotional and physical well-being. Recognize your limits and communicate them respectfully to others, ensuring that your needs are respected and honored.

Practice Gratitude

Cultivate a gratitude practice to shift your focus towards appreciation for yourself. Regularly acknowledge and celebrate your strengths, achievements, and positive qualities.

Express gratitude for the experiences and lessons that have shaped you.

Simply follow your happiness

When you prioritize your happiness and make it a guiding principle in your life, you align yourself with positive energy and a high vibrational state. 

By choosing happiness in each moment, you create a magnetic force that naturally and powerfully draws your soul mate closer.

How to attract a soul mate: a girl looks very happy

Follow your happiness moment to moment is a form of letting go.

Letting go is an essential aspect of manifesting a soulmate. Instead of trying to force or manipulate the process, you allow the universe to orchestrate the perfect timing and alignment for your soulmate to appear.

If you feel like going out and meeting new people, then go for it. If you prefer to stay at home and watch your favorite Netflix show, then do that. Trust your instincts and allow your life to unfold naturally. Embrace the flow of life and let the universe guide you towards the perfect connection.

When you align with your true desires and live authentically, you attract your soulmate effortlessly.

Staying at home watching my favorite Netflix show may seem like it has nothing to do with manifesting your soulmate. So, I want to share a little bit of my story here.

During my single days when I was exhausted from the dating scene, I decided to stay in and binge-watch all seasons of my favorite show, “How I Met Your Mother.”

How to attract a soul mate: a person is watching netflix

Surprisingly, when I met my current boyfriend, we discovered that we both shared a love for that show. This common interest instantly created a connection between us from the moment we met. We spent countless hours discussing the show, and it became one of the initial building blocks that brought us closer together.

So, the point is you just never know!

Lastly, I want to talk a little bit about taking inspired actions. 

The last step is not too obssesed with how to attract a soul mate. Do the method and simply forget it!

Taking inspired actions also a a part of following your happiness.

It means following your intuition and inner guidance. When you listen to your inner calling and act upon it, you open doors and create opportunities for love to enter your life.

These actions can include engaging in social activities that align with your interests, joining communities or groups that resonate with your values, or exploring new hobbies or experiences that bring you joy and fulfillment.

How to attract a soul mate: many people are watching a concert

Inspired actions are not driven by a sense of desperation or neediness but arise from a place of genuine alignment and excitement. They are infused with positive energy and a sense of adventure. 

As you follow your happiness and take inspired actions, you demonstrate to the universe that you are ready and open to receive a soul mate who complements your joy and fulfillment.


I hope my insights of how to attract a soul mate helped you somehow on your journey.

It’s important to remember that the journey to attracting a soul mate is not solely about the destination but also about the growth and self-discovery along the way.

Embrace each moment with curiosity and an open heart, allowing yourself to experience the full spectrum of emotions and learnings. Trust that by following your happiness and taking inspired actions, you are aligning yourself with the divine flow of love and creating a pathway for a soul mate to enter your life.

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