Hello, I’m back with a topic that has always been a burning question in the Law of Attraction community: how to attract love with the Law of Attraction. You’ve probably come across hundreds of videos and read numerous posts on this subject, yet it may not seem to be working for you.
Just like you, I’ve watched numerous videos from different coaches, tried various manifestation methods. Every method, you named it, I tried it.
In today’s post, I aim to make it the last one you’ll ever need to read about attracting love with the Law of Attraction. I will share not only my opinions but also my personal experiences on this topic, and finally show you the most effective way to attract love with the Law of Attraction.
So, let’s get started.
How to attract love with the Law of Attraction
When we talk about using the Law of Attraction to find love, a lot of us think we need to search for it outside of ourselves. But in my opnion, the real secret to attracting love is to start from within.
Finding Happiness from Within
Step 1: Letting go of that yearning
Many of my friends often hold onto this intense desire for love, and it turns into a never-ending longing.
This feeling of wanting can get pretty intense, and we’ve all felt the emotional rollercoaster it brings. Instead of trying to suppress those feelings, I think the first step is to learn to let go of the need.
You can want something and accept that you don’t have it right now without making yourself miserable.
We want love because we think it will make us feel good, so why not do things for ourselves that make us feel good right now? Because the end goal we are seeking is always the feeling of happiness, why should we have to wait until we have a lover in our lives? Why put our happiness in the hands of something or someone else?
You may think this sounds cliché, but the truth is that romantic love is just one aspect of your life. In my experience, love has always come unexpectedly when I’m focusing on something else, such as myself, my career, or my own happiness.
Step 2: Finding Happiness from Within
Talking about being the source of your own happiness, yes, you don’t have to wait for someone or something outside to make you happy.
The key to be happy is very simple. It’s to do things that make you feel happy.
You can engage in activities like meditation, exercise, and spending quality time with loved ones. It’s about finding what resonates with you personally and brings joy and fulfillment to your present moment.
When you’re happy with yourself, you emit a positive vibe that can draw in more of what makes you feel good, sometimes even in the most surprising ways. This inner happiness is not only sensed by you but is also palpable to others around you. It’s as if you’re radiating a warm and inviting aura, a positive vibe that draws people and experiences to you. And usually, that’s how love will find you.
The Overflow of Love
The more I live, the more I see that you’re at your most attractive when you’re being yourself, not when you’re trying to fit some ideal.
When you start loving yourself, you’ll have so much love within you that it’ll spill over. That’s how you can genuinely love others. You need to love yourself first and let that love overflow.
If you try to love others when your own love cup is empty, it can leave you feeling drained. So always start with yourself!
Step 3: Keep your emotions aka vibrations high
According to Dr. Joe Dispenza, the way we feel acts like a magnet for the events and situations that come our way.
The important thing to remember is that we hold the keys to our reality. Blaming others or situations for how we feel only takes away our control. Affirmations and visualizations can be potent tools for sending out positive signals to the universe, but they only work when we genuinely feel those good vibes.
If we can’t truly feel positive, we won’t be able to draw the events and circumstances we desire into our lives. It’s the blend of positive emotions and intention that truly molds our reality.
Read my post about simple ways to keep your vibration high.
Step 4: Confronting Past Baggage
The past can really mess with our desire for love. Healing your inner child and finding love from within is the key.
Maybe you’ve had some trust issues in the past or been through some tough stuff. But it’s essential to face those past traumas, attachments, and childhood experiences that make you look for love on the outside. To let go, you need to confront the baggage.
Step 5: Meditating and Getting to Know You
Meditation is a powerful way to uncover emotions you might have been suppressing.
By sitting in stillness and silence, you create a space for your thoughts and emotions to surface. Often, these thoughts and feelings that you might have been subconsciously suppressing or avoiding in the busyness of everyday life start to emerge during meditation. Don’t avoid this stuff; when it comes up, deal with it. If you bottle it up, it can block love.
Through meditation, you can examine these emotions without judgment. This self-exploration allows you to understand the root causes of your suppressed emotions, which can range from past traumas, unprocessed feelings, or unresolved issues. It’s like shining a light on the hidden corners of your mind and heart, bringing what’s been tucked away into your conscious awareness.
Let go of the resistance by this powerful affirmation
Resistance is what’s holding you back.
It can be a lot to take in with all the methods I mentioned above. Sometimes it feels like there’s just too much to do to find love or get that special someone in your life. However, I just want to list down all those things so you will have a clear understanding of what is preventing you from having the love of your life. That is THE RESISTANCE YOU ARE HOLDING REGARDING YOUR LOVE LIFE, OR YOUR SPECIFIC PERSON.
And don’t you worry, in this part, I will give you one suggestion on manifesting love or manifesting a specific person that will help you fix all the problems you may have regarding your limiting beliefs.
All you have to do is to repeat this one affirmation, reading and treating it like a prayer, and the affirmation will help you to resolve the blockages, the resistance, and lead you to the right way to have the love of your life. You can do this affirmation in combination with the method I suggested above (meditations, doing shadow work to eliminate past baggage, …).
So, till this point, I hope you already understand that the main thing that is keeping you from having the love of your life is your own resistance.
You may still be living in the past, you still have stories that happened in the past, stories about your specific person that make it hard for you to believe that you can have the love of your life, or have that specific person love you and be with you. It’s the voice inside your head saying that you can’t have it, mostly because of what happened to you in the past, that made you believe in certain things.
If you don’t have resistance, then you just need to affirm once and you will get it in like one day, or very fast.
The affirmation
Florence Scovel Shinn was a New Thought spiritual teacher who once said if you really want this guy/girl and you’re holding resentment (even sometimes you may not realize this, it is in the back of your mind). Don’t try to control the person or change their behavior, the only thing you need to do is use the affirmations:
“I let go of resentment, rejection, and abandonment into the God within. I bless my specific person with all the happiness and love in their life if there’s a third party I bless them too. I now go in peace knowing that whoever my divine match is will come to me in the most beautiful and magical way. And I now thank the universe that I’m in the magical and beautiful relationship.”
Try to repeat these affirmations every day, like a prayer. Read it and mean it. Things are going to change so fast for you. This affirmation helps you to release the resistance, and your subconscious mind, which always knows what you want, will manifest that specific person into you or in some cases a better ideal person for you.
In some cases, after using this affirmation to release the resistance, the past story inside of you, you will realize you don’t really like that person anymore. You just feel drawn to that person because you have a certain type of trauma, or some kind of limiting belief that made you want to get accepted and loved by this person. And when that limiting belief or blockage is gone, you don’t feel the need of wanting to have that person anymore. In this case, you will end up manifesting your ideal person, which can be a different, brand new person.
I know some people want to manifest a specific person and want to change a certain behavior from them, a trait that they don’t like in that person, or sometimes want to change them completely. But it doesn’t make sense. You can just manifest the person that is ready right now.
But if that’s what you want, it’s 100% fine. You can do that. If you meet someone, and you know that’s the right person for you, and you just need to change them a little for them to be able to be compatible with you, then you can do it.
Just follow your heart and what feels right for you.
What if the 3D is bothering you?
It’s all about shifting your mindset and stepping into a new identity.
Instead of letting your current situation bother you, try manifesting by embracing the persona of a person who is joyfully in love. Visualize yourself as this content, happy, and loving individual. Think about how this person feels – the positivity, the contentment, and the gratitude for the love in their life. Embrace their mindset and behaviors.
When you begin to think and act like this version of yourself, you’ll start to radiate a different energy, one that can draw love and positivity into your life.
Remember, the Law of Attraction responds to the energy you emit. So, if you focus on what you want, feel it deeply, and adopt a mindset of positivity and gratitude, you’re more likely to manifest love and invite it into your life.
The conclusion
I hope my thoughts on how to attract love with the Law of Attraction were helpful for you.
To sum it up, the Law of Attraction can be your guiding light in the quest to attract love, even when your current circumstances seem less than perfect. The key is to switch gears and adopt a fresh mindset. Rather than letting current challenges bother you, picture yourself as a person who is blissfully in love, radiating positivity, and brimming with gratitude for the love they possess.
Keep in mind, the Law of Attraction responds to the vibrations you emit, so by focusing on what you wish to manifest, and truly experiencing it, you align yourself with the love you seek, ushering it into your life.
